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Where it doesn’t go is an honest examination of the asymmetries and inequalities in the mating process. The man has to meet the woman’s attraction threshold before any TFT commences. Most of the burden of initiation, most of the risk, and most of the costs – monetary and emotional – are still born by the man. The TFT description hides these behind a facade of equal investment.
That said, I am all for encouraging women to engage in TFT, because the more of the burden they are willing to bear, the easier it is for the guys.
Now, for the subsequent discussion. I was not engaged in any direct exchange with Stephanie, but what I read wasn’t going well. She and the men here were largely talking at cross purposes. They wanted to talk in generalities; she wanted to talk about her own experience. They wanted to impose their schema on the discussion; she didn’t cooperate, but didn’t provide an alternative either. Neither side agreed on terminology or assumptions. Neither side was forthcoming with evidence to support their position. All in all, a rather a poor show all around.
I did agree with some of the things she said in the comments, including this: “If a man is not delivering emotional intimacy …”. Yes, of course. I think most men who are successful with relationships with women that last more than a night or two are cognizant of the emotional needs of women. It’s part of the package. Also this: “women are worriers”. I recently read a whole book about that. It’s true, it’s an evolved survival instinct of our species, and there’s no point dismissing it. Women can’t help worry any more than men can stop looking at breasts. It’s part of the package.
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